Baptism for Carver


Sunday was baptism day for Carver.  We had planned it for December but things didn’t work out with the weather and it was postponed.  Sunday was a beautiful day.  Carver hasn’t been feeling the best.  All the yucky sickness stuff from childcare got him.  He had a cough and cold but was a trooper.


Kalissa and Craig picked Kelli and Kayla as sponsors.   Traditionally it’s a boy and girl but there’s no way they could pick between the sisters.  Both adore him.


Here’s Carver mid yawn…. [Read more...]



Kelli and I have had what I’d call a frustrating experience with planning the retreat when Bonnie Hunter is coming in August.

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People are not patient.  People think we know WAY more than we do about their personal lives.  People think we don’t have things going on in our lives beyond the retreat…not everyone but some people sure do.

Here’s some of the things that have happened…..

People have been calling our phones.  I don’t know how they have gotten out numbers but we have had people calling our homes.  For me, it’s while I am working and have childcare kids here.  I’m sure the lady thought I was rude but when kids are here…they are my priority.  One time when a call came in we were out on a girls day.  We were having private family time and we got a call.  Here’s the kicker…the person had email earlier in the week TWICE.  I had answered the emails.  Still they called our personal phone because they thought for some reason that that their ticket into the retreat was talking to me personally.

We have gotten emails from people who were mad at us because we didn’t send info to the person’s friend on the same day we emailed their information because they were planning on riding together.  How can we know who might be riding together?  We don’t know who is and who isn’t friends.  This has happened LOTS!

We have gotten emails from people mad because their desired location was full.

We have gotten second and third emails from people mad because the email they sent earlier in the same day wasn’t answered yet.

We’ve gotten emails from people who asked the retreat owner to “get them in”.  Dropping her name telling us they should get in because they shopped at the quilt shop adjacent to the retreat center.

We have had people who have accusingly said that we sent information to someone they thought was on the list after them.  These people quoted they day they first inquired about the retreat…

We have gotten emails from a quilt guild wanting us to “rent” Bonnie out while she was here and have her go present one night to their guild.

We have had other strange guild related emails….

After sending emails that weren’t answered immediately people have then sent messages us on Facebook too.  The problem with that.  On Facebook their name is “Jane Doe”.  Their email is sent by “BobandJane”.  We have no idea they are the same person so our work is doubled because both messages have to be answered.

These are mostly people who don’t read the blog and don’t know us….yet we are supposed to drop everything for them simply because they want to see Bonnie.

Here are some things we would like everyone to know.

We know some are anxious about the retreat.  We know that some want answers so you can plan.  We know that some of you have to plan travel and feel you need to know the information.  We know some of you want to come with your friends.  We know that it’s frustrating when some feel like they are left out.  We know that some of you want to collect fabric.  (Can you believe a year ago we people asking what quilts we were featuring at the retreat so that they could start cutting out their projects…HONEST)

We also want you to know this…
We are human.
We have jobs…full time jobs-plus some.
We want to please as many people as we can and want this to be an enjoyable experience for all.

In our balance of working together, Kelli is the organizer.  I am not.  She has taken on the brunt of the emails.  She has taken on the email sending and record keeping.  She has been keeping the count.

In the mists of these last few days Kalissa needed help.  Carver is sick.  We have had an ice storm here.  Kelli’s husband had to drive Kelli to work.  He dropped her off.  She worked a 12 hour shift only to find others couldn’t get into work.  She worked another 4 hours.  She tried to sleep at work and couldn’t.  She was up after a few hours and was back working again…another shift.  Her Hubby picked her up.  She went to sleep and now as you are reading this she came to my house to finish watching my childcare kids so that I could attend a funeral.  From here she’s going to Kalissa’s to help her-then to bed only to wake early and make a 2 1/2 hour drive to take her nursing boards test.  All of these things are WAY more import to us than the retreat.

As you can see….we have other priorities right now.  Kelli knows her inbox is full but at this point, there is nothing she can do about it.  Life is happening.

One of our VERY favorite parts of the whole experience so far has come from one of the nicest gals I know…Ana Sweet…Ana had attended the retreat last time so she had first opportunity to come to this retreat.  Ana sent us a message that said, “ I would love to come but will let someone else who has not taken Bonnie’s classes get a chance. It was a blast.”  That’s exactly what we did.  We found someone who hadn’t seen Bonnie before come.

Thanks Ana for being a ray of sunshine!!

Right now, this is how Kelli and I feel…..
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People this is simply a quilting retreat.  It is not worth loosing your integrity over.  Be polite.  Be kind.  Be patient.  Be understanding.  We’re not trying to hurt anyone.  We’re not trying to exclude anyone.  Grant us the privacy and understanding we deserve.

All of this planning and emailing takes time.  Some people don’t respond right away.  Who knew a quilting retreat would be stressful to plan?  Last time was interesting but this time it’s been really bad.  We keep telling ourselves…just a few more days…just a few more days.

UFO Progress


I didn’t get much done this week….I knew I wouldn’t have sewing time because what little time I did have had to be dedicated to charity quilts.  BUT I didn’t want a week to go by with no progress at all…so I pulled out  my Texas Braids and decided to trim them.  I’ve had them done for awhile but have been afraid to trim them…well I started out by reading the directions.  I read and tried to understand the cutting process.  It shows to cut between the two squares.  Hmmm….I decided I really didn’t like that option. TexasBraids-1 If I do that, part of my block will get lost in the seam when I put the binding on.  I decided instead to slide my ruler over about a 1/4″ and cut there. TexasBraids-5 Mine ended up looking like this. TexasBraids-6 Then I started looking at the drawing.  I was so confused.  The picture showed that the little red squares went from border to border.  I liked that.  But then I went and re-read the cutting instructions.  Something seemed off.  I felt like I needed but cut something off the other end too. TexasBraids-3 See…look at the picture below. [Read more...]

What I’m NOT Reading….


Have you noticed that I started giving up on books a little easier lately?  I really have-especially when the books are library books and I don’t have money invested into them.

The first book I gave up on was The Summer Before the War: A Novel  by Helen Simonson.

All of you who know me and my reading taste are likely shocked that I’d give up on this…It’s historical fiction that happened over the time of WWI.  I should have loved the book.  I didn’t though.  I am 3/4 of the way through and there is no plot….nothing interesting.  Nothing caught me.  It’s so slow and frankly boring.  There are no hints…no nothing that is making me care about any of these characters at all.  I gave up.

Here’s what Amazon had to say, “East Sussex, 1914. It is the end of England’s brief Edwardian summer, and everyone agrees that the weather has never been so beautiful. Hugh Grange, down from his medical studies, is visiting his Aunt Agatha, who lives with her husband in the small, idyllic coastal town of Rye. Agatha’s husband works in the Foreign Office, and she is certain he will ensure that the recent saber rattling over the Balkans won’t come to anything. And Agatha has more immediate concerns; she has just risked her carefully built reputation by pushing for the appointment of a woman to replace the Latin master.

When Beatrice Nash arrives with one trunk and several large crates of books, it is clear she is significantly more freethinking—and attractive—than anyone believes a Latin teacher should be. For her part, mourning the death of her beloved father, who has left her penniless, Beatrice simply wants to be left alone to pursue her teaching and writing.

But just as Beatrice comes alive to the beauty of the Sussex landscape and the colorful characters who populate Rye, the perfect summer is about to end. For despite Agatha’s reassurances, the unimaginable is coming. Soon the limits of progress, and the old ways, will be tested as this small Sussex town and its inhabitants go to war.”

Amazon readers say the book gets a 4 star rating…ugh.  No.  Don’t bother with this one!

The next book I gave up on is LaRose: A Novel    by Louise Erdrich
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